ho, skank, thot, bitch, trick. these are some of the hurful words used by men and women toward women because they either did what the man wanted with him, or didnt do what the man wanted. And as women we often go along with it. 

I am a domestic violence survivor and I had two “friends” tell me that I had it coming because I am mouthy, and because I left him.  

My own aunt (who I later learned was my biological mother) begged me not to do anything to cause him to loose his job. 

the police officer called to the scene wouldnt write a report until I told him I was a former assistant states attorney.

Many in this society still see women as the property of their fathers or husbands and ignore when they are mistreated.

many women suffer from “good nigga” syndrome. I’m not like those other… she had it coming because… we throw insults and shade as fast as the men. so busy trying to get choosed. ” Cause i’s a good nigga, massa”


Author: pdeedixon

Woman. Mother. Lawyer. Black. RaceWoman. Womanist. Feminist. LBGTQQPIA ally. divorced

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