♪ I like bad bitches, cause they like bad bitches too!♫

so I am rethinking my stand on the word nigger.
and all language

how much does intent effect the energy/vibration of a word?

recently a younger woman called me a BadBitch on social media, said that I reminded her of her mother who was all a BadBitch. felt that she and my daughter were lucky to have been loved by BadBitches.

there was a overwhelming sense of love and respect… almost reverence.

I was reminded of two instances in my past.
1) Dave Chapplle spoke about the wrong people laughing at a skit for the wrong reasons before he left the show.

2) a ‘friend’ called me a bitch in conversation in relation to a change of my circumstance and it felt hurtful.

So when young people say that they have reclaimed the word nigger… maybe there is something to it.

Granted, every one cant say the word nigger or bitch and make me feel loved or cared for,
but on the other hand….
there are people who I want to keep my name out of their mouth….
as nothing they say rings sweet or true

just thinking

like bad bitches, cause they like bad bitches too

Author: pdeedixon

Woman. Mother. Lawyer. Black. RaceWoman. Womanist. Feminist. LBGTQQPIA ally. divorced

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