Looking for my Tribe

I am looking for my tribe
I am bored with hate and meanness.
it is not a part of human experience and must be taught.
it take work to be hard hearted and mean to other humans based on what
race
gender
orientation
class
able-ism
it is all just so profoundly stupid.

so if that is how you roll – unfriend me now… its okay –
i wont be offended
wont shed a fucking tear.

and be clear i don’t care your excuse for your shallow ass hatred.

“its a sin” – fuck you
“a person like that group was mean to my great grand father” – go to hell
“i am an idiot” – yes you are
“Its how I was raised” – don’t give a flying fuck

when you bring hate and meanness to the table – you are cordially invited to find another damn table.

being mean and hatefilled says alot about you and your beliefs. it also reflects on those with whom you associate, not in a good way.

two things bring this on – and both are related to learning that I am adopted and raised by people to loved me dearly and lied to me daily.

i am accepting that my instincts and intuition were corrupted by loving liars.
I am learning, like a toddler, to trust my instincts and intuition.

i dont like gossip and recently had to cut loose a friend who loves it and defends it…. that and she lied on me to me

and lets be clear – I have made my positions clear and dont comment on your hateful, ignorant, mean spirited posts…

keep your mess off my posts and or unfriend me!!!

so if you are racists/ sexist/ homophobic/ transphobic/ ableist/ classist/ and anyother phobic-ist –

feel free to remain so – roll around in it – jlove yoursel – do YOU– but stay in your lane

Author: pdeedixon

Woman. Mother. Lawyer. Black. RaceWoman. Womanist. Feminist. LBGTQQPIA ally. divorced

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